what's important here?
I'm really good at comparing myself to others and then putting myself down and belittling my efforts. It's really easy for me to get stressed about what others are doing with their kids and then feeling like I need to as well. So I thought I'd make of list of comparisons as to what is REALLY important to me and what is not. Reading to my children is important; getting my child to read before Kindergarten is not. Having enough is important; having more than I know to do with is not. Playing with my children is important; playing an organized game with many objectives for learning is not. Keeping in touch with people is important; updating Facebook incessantly is not. Feeding my children is important (preferably healthy food); feeding them homemade, everything from scratch, ALL THE TIME is not. Sleeping is important; sleeping 8 hours is...